Welcome to SmartLoveAI!
We're so glad you're here. To support a respectful and inspiring environment for all members, we ask that you follow these simple guidelines:
What's Expected of You
- Be kind and respectful. Treat others as you wish to be treated.
- No harassment or rudeness. Profiles may be removed for inappropriate or disrespectful behavior.
- Respect boundaries. If someone indicates they're not interested, please honor that and move on gracefully.
- Respect member privacy. Do not share another member's personal information - including their messages, name, photo, or any identifying details - with any third party, including AI/chatbot tools, without their explicit permission.
- Use real photos. Your main profile photo must be a clear, unaltered image of your face and shoulders. See full details in our Terms of Service.
- No contact info in public areas. Do not include your email, phone number, website, social media handle, or other contact details in your tagline, profile, photos, or videos.
- Keep your profile honest and up to date. Please represent yourself truthfully - including your age, relationship status, and location.
- Complete your profile. Profiles with substance (including bio, photos, Essay Questions and essays) create better connections.
- Report violations. Help us maintain a safe, conscious space by reporting any misuse or inappropriate content.
Tips for Success
While not required, many of our happiest couples share that these practices helped attract the right partner:
- Take the assessment quizes and find out a little more about yourself.
- Complete your profile with photos and thoughtful answers to the Essay Questions.
- Be authentic. Let your true self shine through in your profile and messages.
- Set clear intentions.
- Know what you want in a partner and relationship, and focus on that vision.
- Visualize your ideal relationship.
- Be proactive. Don't wait - reach out to people who resonate with you.
- Reference something specific. When writing to someone, mention something from their profile to show genuine interest.
- Practice gratitude. Feel grateful in advance for the connection that's on its way.
- Trust the process. Stay open, joyful, and centered in the knowing that love is already aligning.
- Be open to change. Don't be afraid to change your mind.
- Use the Law of Attraction. Align your intentions with your actions, and welcome your soul-aligned partner in.
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Tell your friends. We deeply appreciate you sharing our site with other singles.
What not to do
- Don't ghost. If you're no longer interested in someone, kindly let them know rather than disappearing.
- Don't spam. Avoid sending the same message to multiple people or using generic copy/paste messages.
- Don't be negative. Keep your profile and messages positive and uplifting.
- Don't overshare. Keep initial messages light and fun - save deeper topics for later conversations.
- Don't rush. Take your time getting to know someone before meeting in person.
- Don't pressure. Never pressure anyone into sharing more than they're comfortable with or meeting before they're ready.
- Don't lie. Be honest about your intentions, relationship status, and what you're looking for.
- Don't share contact info too soon. Wait until you've built some rapport before exchanging personal contact details.
- Don't use AI to generate messages. We want to connect with the real you!