SmartLoveAI Safety Tips

Protect Your Personal Information

Choose Photos Carefully

• Use recent, accurate photos - Represent yourself honestly
• Avoid location identifiers - Don't use photos that show your home, car license plate, or workplace
• Be mindful of metadata - Some photos contain location data; consider removing it before uploading
• Keep children's faces private - If you must include photos with children, blur or hide their faces
• Reverse image search - Be aware that others can use reverse image search; only post what you're comfortable being public

Privacy Settings

• Review your privacy settings regularly
• Control who can see your profile and information
• Use SmartLoveAI's blocking features if you feel uncomfortable with someone
• Consider using our profile visibility controls to limit who can find you

Keep Conversations on the Platform

Get to Know Someone First

• Take your time - Don't rush into sharing personal details or meeting in person
• Ask questions - Get to know their interests, background, and intentions
• Video chat first - Use video calls to verify identity before meeting
• Watch for inconsistencies - Be wary if their story changes or doesn't add up
• Trust your gut - If something feels off, it probably is

When Moving to Phone/Text

• Consider using a Google Voice number or similar service instead of your real number
• Don't share your number until you're comfortable
• Block and report if someone becomes pushy or aggressive about getting your number

Before the Date

• Choose the location yourself - Pick a busy, public place you're familiar with (coffee shop, restaurant, museum)
• Share your plans - Tell a trusted friend or family member:
  • Who you're meeting (name, profile link)
  • Where you're going (address and name)
  • What time you expect to return
• Set up a check-in - Arrange to text or call your friend at a specific time
• Keep your phone charged - Ensure your battery is full
• Have emergency numbers ready - Know how to reach local authorities

During the Date

• Meet in public - Never go to someone's home or invite them to yours on a first date
• Provide your own transportation - Drive yourself, use ride-share, or take public transit (don't let them pick you up)
• Don't leave drinks unattended - Watch your drink being prepared and keep it with you
• Stay in control - Limit alcohol consumption to stay alert
• Trust your instincts - If you feel uncomfortable, leave immediately
• Keep valuables secure - Don't leave your phone, wallet, or bag unattended

It's Okay to Leave

Common Romance Scams

Protect Your Financial Information

• Never share credit card numbers, bank account details, or social security numbers
• Don't wire money via Western Union, MoneyGram, or cryptocurrency
• Don't accept checks or money transfers from someone you don't know (they may be fake)
• Avoid money-mule schemes - Don't let someone use your bank account to transfer money
• Be wary of sob stories - Scammers use emotional manipulation

Gift Cards & Cryptocurrency

Be cautious if someone exhibits any of these warning signs:

We take safety seriously and rely on our community to help us maintain a safe environment. Please report suspicious activity immediately.

When to Report Someone

• Suspicious or fake profiles - Stock photos, inconsistent information
• Scam attempts - Requests for money, gift cards, or financial information
• Harassment or abuse - Threatening, offensive, or unwanted contact
• Inappropriate content - Explicit messages, nudity, pornography
• Underage users - Anyone who appears to be under 18
• Spam or commercial activity - Advertising, solicitation
• Impersonation - Someone pretending to be you or another person

How to Report

Blocking Someone

If someone makes you uncomfortable, you can block them to prevent further contact:

• They will no longer be able to view your profile
• They cannot send you messages
• You won't see them in search results or matches
• The block is anonymous - they won't be notified

Reporting to Authorities

Domestic Violence & Support

Online Safety Education

• FTC Guide to Romance Scams
• FBI Romance Scams Information
• National Cybersecurity Alliance - Online Dating Safety

Identity Theft & Fraud

• IdentityTheft.gov: www.identitytheft.gov
• Credit Bureaus: Monitor your credit if you've shared financial information
• Social Security Fraud: 1-800-269-0271

LGBTQ+ Resources